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I can message 50 and get about 7, about 5 of those are just the one line response and nothing, about 2 I can go for 4-5 more messages and then it's over with "no thanks." I have been asking here and elsewhere relentlessly, the men are telling me to bulk up and take my shirt off (which is NOT me), the women will not offer me the type to advertise myself.I don't believe I should be selling myself like a brand, and I don't believe it is even ethical for me, or anyone, to search through hundreds of profiles as if they were trading cards with different stats for strength, beauty, and intelligence, and then pick out what you want. A marketplace for a "special someone" is an extremely twisted idea IMHO.No..I guarantee that it would help...a lot, and anybody (woman or man) who says any different is lying to you through their teeth/keyboard.This won't appeal to all, maybe some or maybe majority of women on dating sites, I don't know.For what it's worth you have my respect..you're ever in Toronto...first shot of bourbon is on yours truly.
To me, it's more than just looks or getting ripped and showing pictures of your naked self.
She's confident in who she is and knows what she wants, even if she may not always 2. She's never been the type of person who *needs* to be in a relationship, or even someone to go to dinner with. She knows what she wants in life and she's determined to make it happen.
She isn't going to waste time in a relationship with someone who isn't as independent as she is. She actually that's super important to her, it's because she trusts you.
To say it's not a marketplace would be to tell me "just be yourself and replies will pour in", that is NOT the case here. It's either that we don't know how to write a profile, or don't know how to write a message, or that we just take bad profile pics. It's either that we don't know how to write a profile, or don't know how to write a message, or that we just take bad profile pics.
After 3 weeks of being there, the only thing that's happened is what little confidence I had, has gone further down the drain. If I thought I was good looking before, what about now? The first thing I thought when I read this was, I love myself so much that I am well acquainted with Rosy Palms. I've seen lots of guys stressing over not getting dates on POF, and when I look at their profile pic, I can see why. The first thing I thought when I read this was, I love myself so much that I am well acquainted with Rosy Palms. I've seen lots of guys stressing over not getting dates on POF, and when I look at their profile pic, I can see why. Hmmm...does it have to be just for the reasons you've listed? Maybe it's something that has more to do with them and not you.
Please don't - I doesn't send a very good message IMO.